So you are trying to learn your favorite
Elton John song and you can't make out that pesky chord. Every aspect of our human nature pushes us to get frustrated.
Instead of giving up, listen to it. Yes, I know you have listened otherwise why are you trying to learn it but there are many types of listening. Here are a few quick suggestions of when, where, and how to listen.
Listen while cooking: When your hands are busy your mind has the ability to focus and relax at the same time.
Listen while playing: with your kids, board games, hobbies, video games, or whatever you do to relax. You will be surprised what you will hear the next time you do a focused listening.
Listen while driving: Perfect time to absorb music without distraction as long as you still drive safely.
These are just a few suggestions. Post or comment on fb some you think of.